Raising kids abroad is a journey filled with unique challenges and surprises, especially when they grow up in a culture so different from their own. In Indonesia, many expat families witness an incredible transformation in their children — from being “bule” (foreigners) to slowly absorbing local customs, language, and even mindset.
An article by Indonesia Expat shares how expat children living in Indonesia navigate between two worlds — their home culture and the local Indonesian way of life (Indonesia Expat, “From Bule to Local: How Expat Kids Absorb — and Sometimes Resist — Indonesian Culture”).
The Language Bridge: Bahasa Indonesia Comes Naturally
One of the most noticeable shifts happens with language. Expat kids pick up Bahasa Indonesia surprisingly fast, often becoming the family’s unofficial translator when dealing with drivers, shopkeepers, or street vendors.
According to Indonesia Expat, “It’s not uncommon to see children comfortably mixing Bahasa Indonesia and English in one sentence — a clear sign they are adapting.”
✔ They learn from school, friends, and daily interactions
✔ Local slang and cultural phrases become part of their speech
✔ Language helps them blend in and form stronger local friendships
Social Adaptation: Friendships, Food, and Play
Expat kids are known to adapt to Indonesian social customs with ease — from greeting elders with a polite “Salam” to understanding the concept of “jam karet” (flexible time).
They also develop a taste for local snacks like krupuk, nasi goreng, or martabak, and sometimes prefer it over food from their home country.
However, the article points out that not all kids fully embrace local culture immediately — some resist, especially when faced with strict school environments or cultural norms that feel unfamiliar.
Cultural Challenges and Identity Mix
Living between two cultures can create moments of confusion or resistance for expat children:
✔ Some struggle with hierarchical structures in local schools
✔ Others question different social expectations
✔ They face the challenge of being “too local” for home country peers, yet still “bule” in Indonesia
Yet over time, most kids find their balance — becoming global citizens who think differently, feel comfortable anywhere, and have a unique understanding of the world.
Parental Role: Helping Kids Navigate Both Worlds
Parents play a vital role in helping their children embrace Indonesian culture while staying connected to their roots. Simple steps include:
✔ Encouraging language learning
✔ Joining local and expat communities
✔ Exposing children to both cultures equally
As Indonesia Expat states, “These children grow up with the priceless gift of perspective — seeing the world through two lenses.”
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Source:
- Indonesia Expat. “From Bule to Local: How Expat Kids Absorb — and Sometimes Resist — Indonesian Culture.” Available at: https://indonesiaexpat.id/outreach/observations/from-bule-to-local-how-expat-kids-absorb-and-sometimes-resist-indonesian-culture/
